You Do Not Have to Fix Yourself to Feel Pleasure: How Tantra and Parts Work Heal Intimacy From the Inside Out You do not have to fix yourself to feel pleasure. That is the first thing I want you to know before you read another word. I have sat with people in the most...
Something I notice often, and have felt myself, is the particular quality of exhaustion that does not announce itself. It does not arrive as collapse. It does not come with obvious distress signals. It moves quietly beneath a life that, by every external measure, is...
For many people, pleasure does not feel relaxing. It feels destabilizing.It feels undeserved.It feels like something that will eventually require repayment. This isn’t because pleasure is unwanted. It’s because the body has learned, often very quietly, that receiving...
