Violet Jolie
Tantric Massage and Somatic Bodywork in Newport Beach, Orange County CA
Violet Jolie
Master Tantra Teacher and Somatic Bodyworker
Specializing in extended, high container somatic work for discerning clients
Based in Newport Beach, CA | Serving Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Newport Coast, Irvine, Costa Mesa, and Orange County | Minutes from John Wayne Airport (SNA)
THE BODY KNOWS WHAT THE MIND HAS FORGOTTEN
Over twenty years. Thousands of clients. A depth of skill that can only be earned through time, devotion, and an unwavering commitment to this work.
I am Newport Beach’s most experienced tantric massage and somatic bodywork practitioner. I offer a rare combination of clinical training and tantric wisdom that creates sessions my clients describe as genuinely life changing.
My work lives at the meeting point of body, heart, and soul. Whether you are coming to me in Newport Beach, Orange County, or Los Angeles, you will receive the same exquisite level of presence, precision, and care.
Clients find me when they are ready for something real. When they are done managing their experience from the outside and are ready to drop into a level of aliveness they have never allowed themselves before.
I will meet you there.
Ready to Connect?
Who My Work Is For
You have accomplished a great deal. You are intelligent, self aware, and you have done the work. And yet there is a part of you that knows there is more. A depth of feeling, presence, and aliveness that has not yet been fully touched.
That is exactly who I am here for.
I work with people who sense there is something deeper beneath the surface. Leaders, visionaries, creatives, and unconventional thinkers who are ready to stop managing their experience and start inhabiting it fully. My space warmly and completely welcomes all bodies, all identities, and all paths, including those who identify as trans, non-binary, and asexual.
Whatever brings you here, you will be met with complete presence, zero judgment, and a session customized entirely to where you are right now.
My work is particularly transformative for:
Leaders and High Performers who live at the edge of their capacity and are ready for a space where the armor can finally come off. Where there is nothing to manage, perform, or produce. Only presence.
Women Reclaiming Their Bodies who have spent years meeting external demands and are ready to return to themselves, slowly, safely, and entirely on their own terms.
Couples Seeking Real Depth who are ready to move beyond the familiar patterns of long term partnership and discover a new level of conscious connection, touch, and erotic aliveness together.
Approach to Somatic Healing
I work intuitively and attentively, listening closely to breath, tone, tension, and subtle shifts throughout our entire time together, while honoring consent at every step. Touch is intentional and guided. My presence adapts to you in real time.
A wide range of sensation and emotional response may arise naturally within pleasure-based somatic work. The structure is not built around performance or specific outcomes. It is built around depth, regulation, and sustained presence, with connection and awareness at the center.
“I help people experience what they previously could only think about.”
I do not rely on theory. I rely on patterns observed across thousands of sessions. I guide full-cycle processing, not partial insight. The difference is felt immediately.
Many of the people who find their way to this work return over time, using these sessions to reconnect with themselves, regulate their nervous system, and maintain a deeper, more embodied relationship with their own body.
What I offer is clearly defined and consistent. There are no unlisted services or hidden additions. What I offer is the work itself, held with sincerity, devotion, and full presence.
It would be my honor to share this sacred time with you.
Moments of Presence
WHAT WE WILL EXPLORE TOGETHER
Tantra-informed Bodywork & Exploration. Sessions are designed to meet you exactly where you are and to support what matters most to you right now.
- PAUSE & Reset: Step off the grind and reconnect with yourself through rest, reflection, and grounded presence.
- Healing Loneliness & Restoring Sensitivity: Reconnect with physical sensation, restoring a natural sense of presence and responsiveness in the body.
- Nervous System Reset: Support your system in recalibrating from patterns of high stimulation or digital overexposure, with somatic techniques that support regulation and recovery.
- Men’s Confidence & Performance Support: Strengthen stamina and body awareness through practical, guided techniques that help shift patterns and build lasting confidence.
- Life Transitions Support: Navigate change with clarity, whether you’re moving through a breakup, new direction, or personal shift.
- Building Confidence: Shift patterns and develop a stronger sense of self-trust and presence.
- First-Timer’s Welcome: Step into new experiences with clarity, safety, and expert support.
- The Art of Conscious Touch: Learn presence, awareness, and the four elements of conscious touch to deepen connection with a partner.
- Finding Inner Clarity: Often, when touch is received with gentleness, something softens. A deeper sense of what truly matters to you, has a way of rising naturally to the surface.
I invite you to explore beyond your usual patterns and reconnect with a deeper sense of presence and fulfillment. It’s time to reconnect with the ease, aliveness, and enjoyment that’s been waiting for you.
A LOVING INVITATION
A NOTE TO MY IDEAL FUTURE CLIENTS
There is a certain kind of person I am writing this for.
You have done the work. You have built something real, cultivated a life of depth and intention, and you still feel it, that quiet sense that there is a layer of yourself you have not yet fully arrived in. Not broken. Not lost. Simply ready for something more.
That feeling is not a problem to be solved. It is an invitation.
The people I am most honored to work with are intellectually curious, emotionally courageous, and deeply committed to their own growth. They are leaders who understand that true mastery begins within. Creatives and visionaries who know that the most profound work comes from the most honest places. Couples who have built something beautiful together and are ready to discover entirely new dimensions of connection.
They do not come to me out of desperation. They come out of discernment. They know the difference between competent and truly extraordinary, and they will not settle for less.
What I offer cannot be found on a wellness menu or booked through an app. It is the result of nearly two decades of devoted full time practice, thousands of hours of deeply held client work, and an unwavering love for this craft.
If something in you quietly said yes while reading this, I encourage you to trust that.
This work was made for you.
This Work Is Not For Everyone
This is a pleasure-based somatic experience held within a clearly defined structure and professional boundaries. It is not a casual or recreational offering, and it is not a substitute for therapy or clinical medical treatment. This is not a fantasy fulfillment service, or a veiled transactional experience with spiritual branding. It is professional, structured, and held to the highest standard of integrity in every session.
If you are seeking fantasy fulfillment, role-play, or a scripted experience, this is not the right fit. If you are approaching this as a service menu with guaranteed outcomes, you will not find that here.
This work asks something of you. A willingness to be present, to receive without agenda, and to trust a process that moves at the pace of your body rather than the pace of your expectations.
EDUCATION & CERTIFICATIONS
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20 years experience in the tantric arts
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Certified Somatica Practitioner
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Certified Hakomi Therapist
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Certified Massage Therapist
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Watsu Massage Training (100 hours at Harbin Hotsprings)
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Tantra Training with Steve and Lokita Carter
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Graduate of the Open Heart Doula Training
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20 years experience as an Intimacy Educator and coach
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Tantric Performance artist
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Graduate of the Interchange Counseling Institute
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Graduate of SFSI training
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Plant Medicine and Ceremonial Experience
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Lomi Lomi and structural integration bodywork training
other Session offerings
Session Formats
While session lengths may appear similar, these sessions are held differently.
Surrender: Tantra Ties and Rope Bond sessions are structured as a fully guided, extended experience with time for intention setting, pacing, integration, and the use of additional sensory tools.
Tantra massage is a more focused bodywork session within a set timeframe.
SURRENDER TANTRA TIES & ROPE BOND
Step into a sacred sanctuary designed to ignite your senses, deepen trust, and awaken the hidden currents of intimacy between you and your Tantric Priestess. Tantra Ties is an immersive ritual where the art of loving restraint meets the electric pulse of Tantric energy.
Guided with presence and reverence, this experience invites you to surrender into a world where play becomes profound connection. Bound in soft restraints, veiled in darkness, your awareness heightens as you are drawn fully into the now.
A curated palette of sensory delights awaits: whisper-soft textures, teasing prickles, resonant sound, scent, and taste—all skillfully woven to awaken the body’s deepest pathways of pleasure and presence. Impact play (if desired), becomes a rhythmic dance of trust and release, always attuned to your boundaries and desires.
This is more than sensation; it is an invitation to explore the edges of surrender, to rediscover yourself through the language of the body, breath, and energy. An experience where vulnerability becomes power, and where the sacred and the erotic intertwine.
Each session is fully tailored—whether you are gently dipping your toes into the unknown or diving boldly into the depths, (Intensity Levels 1–10.) no matter what level you’re at (Beginners welcome).
This is an invitation to go beyond your perceived limits, to explore new dimensions of intimate energy. For individuals ready to dissolve the ordinary, awaken the extraordinary, and surrender into the mystery.
• 90-mins is the minimum needed to experience this epic session. Focus is entirely the Ties exploration.
• 2-hrs weaves Bliss massage into the Ties exploration and allows for an in-depth pace in which to truly experience each tactile sensation without rush.
• 2.5-3 hrs incorporates a perfect blend of Bliss massage, Tantric ritual & wave pattern as well as the in-depth Ties sensory exploratory journey.
Advanced Tantra Ties/Bond
(Levels 8-10): (Starting @ $740 / 90 minutes)
For experienced participants seeking higher intensity. Includes sharper sensations, rope restraint, safe word and advanced impact play.
(Starting @ $650 / 90mins)
SENSORY AWAKENING
This is an elegant, multi-sensory journey designed with the intention of awakening every part of you and your senses… taking you on a spine-tingling journey from head to toe! Over a dozen luxurious, high quality sensory toys, sounds and scents will be gently and expertly used, guiding you to the edges of sensation, into a deeply embodied and ecstatic state of presence. This session is the perfect blend of sensory play that’s melts into a heightened level of Bliss massage… a fun and explorative journey that will enhance your bliss and take you to new heights!
• 90 mins is the minimum needed to experience this blended journey, highlighting the most popular instruments.
• 2 hrs is highly recommended so you can fully dive into the experience at a slower dreamy pace, including ALL of the instruments.
• 2.5-3 hrs of this offering allows for a divine exploration, with ALL the bells and whistles AND still have plenty of time for luxurious lingering paced bodywork.
(Starting @ $600 / 90mins)
TANTRIC BODYWORK
A Journey of Self-Intimacy and Presence
Tantric Bodywork is a potent combination of deep, intuitive Bliss massage and sacred Tantric ritual. This practice is an invitation to fully embrace your human experience, cultivating a deeper intimacy with yourself and awakening energies that promote profound well-being and self-
The Sacred Journey
It is a sincere privilege to be a guide on your path. I believe that within you lies the capacity for profound growth and change, and helping you realize that potential is my greatest reward. Having channeled my own past adversities into insight, my goal is to facilitate your return to wholeness, leading you toward inner peace, restoration, and a sense of belonging across your entire being.
My sessions are mindfully crafted as an interactive journey infused with deep receiving and your mutual engagement. Following inner guidance from my higher self, I attune my awareness to deeply resonate with what your soul truly seeks.
Tantra sessions can include (depending on length of session):
Transforming Through Presence
My dedication to this work, is to catalyze your fullest potential through energy and chakra illumination, harmonization and deep-level recalibration. By integrating powerful energetic modalities, I design a truly unparalleled experience, that fosters deep feelings of unconditional love, a sense of fresh energy, serenity, and an undeniable feeling of vibrant vitality.
The path is simple: just allow yourself to receive and be open to the healing and activation. As your compassionate guide, I will weave a rich current of energy that flows into your physical being, mental space, and spiritual essence, so that you feel absolutely embraced, seen, and empowered.
This session is a powerful fit for individuals eager to explore the principles of Tantra for self-mastery, or to understand how Tantra can support personal evolution, as well as for those yearning for a deeply integrated experience that transcends the ordinary boundaries of our shared human existence.
Tantra Session Lengths & Depth
Tantra is about slowing down and allowing space for deeper connection—not just with another, but within yourself.
• 90 Minutes: The minimum needed for a true Tantric experience. This length helps you understand the basics of Tantra and begin to experience an energetic body awakening with parts of the full ritual.
• 2 Hours (Complete Flow): This length allows you to experience the complete flow of a Tantric ritual. This extra time moves you beyond the surface, easing the mind out of its daily “grind mode” and into a deeper, more meditative state where true transformation can happen.
• 2.5 to 3+ Hours (Deep Immersion): This length dives deep into the realm of true tantric healing, focusing on re-sensitizing, mastering energetic control, and elongating the eb and flow of tantric wave pattern near the end of the experience. The longer the session, the deeper and more profound the experience.
While 2-3 hour sessions are ideal for the most profoundly immersive experiences, I am happy to honor whatever length feels right for you. Let’s create a journey that best supports your needs!
I’m ready to guide you on this journey of rediscovery. Which session length feels most aligned with your current intention?
(Starting at $530 / 90 mins)
COUPLES TANTRA
My work with women & couples is INCREDIBLY special to me. I adore facilitating bringing you closer together in a deeper way than ever before! Couples Tantra is a wonderful way to explore new realms with your partner in a safe and loving environment.
I am here to receive you in your truth, guiding you into alleviating the burden of past trauma that you may carry and to take you on a journey of true sensual empowerment, soul healing relaxation and deep connection.
I guide couples in a beautiful tantric ritual while sitting in Yab Yum (Lover’s Pose) that allows you to drop in and deeply connect in mindfulness and divine love with one another, through touch, eye gazing, sound, breath, bodywork and tantric massage.
Experience being a receiver and a giver of a four-handed tantric massage with your partner and your therapist and going on an exquisite journey of touch and awakening connection with your beloved. This amazing journey can take your relationship to the next level and add a spark into the mix with skills you’ll be able to use together long after your session.
Great for an anniversary or a special occasion in Los Angeles, it’s a perfect romantic getaway for couples to share this Tantric experience.
Tantra is about slowing down and allowing space for deeper connection—not just with another, but within yourself. I take great care in crafting each session to be authentic, high-quality, and deeply nourishing.
• 2 Hours (Introductory): The minimum needed for a true Couples Tantric experience. This introductory length helps you understand the basics of Tantra, and includes the yab-yum ritual/chakra opening, and just enough time that both of you can practice being a giver and a receiver of tantric bodywork, and for you each to begin experiencing an energetic body awakening.
• 2.5 Hours (Complete Flow): This length allows you to experience the complete flow of a Tantric ritual. This extra time moves you beyond the surface, easing the mind out of its daily “grind mode” and into a deeper, more meditative state where true transformation can happen. Women often find benefit to this extra time to allow their bodies to naturally guide them without rush.
• 3 Hours (Deep Immersion): This length dives deep into the realm of true tantric healing and deep connection with one another, focusing on mastering energetic control, and elongating the eb and flow of tantric wave pattern near the end of the experience. The longer the session, the deeper and more profound the experience.
(Starting @ $1000 / 2hrs)
COUPLES SENSORY AWAKENING
This offering was designed with the intention of awakening you and your partners senses… taking you both on a spine-tingling journey from head to toe! Over a dozen luxurious, high quality sensory toys, sounds and scents will be gently and expertly used, guiding you to the edges of sensation, into a deeply embodied and ecstatic state of presence.
This session is the perfect blend of sensory play that’s melts into a heightened level of Bliss massage… a fun and explorative journey that will enhance your connection with one another. You will each have the experience of being a giver and a receiver, learning (with my loving guidance), tools and techniques to bring home for continued exploration.
• 2-hours is the minimum needed to experience this blended journey, highlighting the most popular instruments.
• 2.5 hours is highly recommended so you can fully dive into the experience at a slower dreamy pace, including ALL of the instruments.
• 3 hours of this offering allows for a divine exploration, with ALL the bells and whistles AND still have plenty of time for luxurious lingering paced bodywork.
(Starting @ $1200 / 2hrs)
COUPLES TANTRA TIES
Step into a sacred sanctuary designed to ignite your senses, deepen trust, and awaken the hidden currents of intimacy between you and your beloved. Tantra Ties for Couples is an immersive ritual where the art of loving restraint meets the electric pulse of Tantric energy.
Guided with presence and reverence, this experience invites you both to surrender into a world where play becomes profound connection. Bound in soft restraints, veiled in darkness, your awareness heightens as you are drawn fully into the now—together.
A curated palette of sensory delights awaits: whisper-soft textures, teasing prickles, resonant sound, scent, and taste—all skillfully woven to awaken the body’s deepest pathways of pleasure and presence. Impact play (if desired), becomes a rhythmic dance of trust and release, always attuned to your boundaries and desires.
This is more than sensation; it is an invitation to explore the edges of surrender, to rediscover each other through the language of the body, breath, and subtle energy. A co-created experience where vulnerability becomes power, and where the sacred and the erotic intertwine.
Each session is fully tailored—whether you are gently dipping your toes into the unknown or diving boldly into the depths. (Intensity Levels 1–10.)
For couples ready to dissolve the ordinary, awaken the extraordinary, and meet each other in the mystery.
DOUBLE SESSIONS (TWO HEALERS)
(Double the rate. Ask me for more info!)
VIP JOURNEYS
(2 Healers. $4400 / 4hrs)
(Ask me for more info!)
COUPLES VIP JOURNEYS
(2 Healers. 1 personal chef. $5000 / 4hrs)
(Ask me for more info!)
READY TO CONNECT?
I’m honored that you feel drawn to my work and presence. Before we explore what’s possible together, I invite you to take a few intentional steps toward making a thoughtful introduction. Our connection truly begins with our first exchange, and this initial process helps ensure that we are aligned in values, intentions, and care.
I believe that meaningful work unfolds best when both people feel safe, respected, and fully present. Screening allows me to show up with openness and devotion, and it supports you in entering the space with clarity and ease. I warmly welcome those who approach this work with reverence, mindfulness, and a genuine desire for connection.
New Clients:
Trust and respect begin well before we meet. I carefully screen all new clients to maintain the integrity, safety, and intentional nature of this work. If you feel called to work with Sensaura Sanctuary and me, you are invited to complete our New Client Application and participate in our screening process.
We are discerning with whom we work, and not all applications are accepted. This care allows me to offer my full presence and create the kind of container that supports deep, meaningful sessions. I have a significantly established practice and highly recommend pre-booking your session in advance rather than assuming last-minute availability.
Established Clients:
If you are an established client of Sensaura Sanctuary, you are welcome to text the number associated with your nearest location to schedule.
Please note that we accept TEXT MESSAGES ONLY. Phone calls are not answered nor returned, as this helps us maintain privacy, presence, and clear communication.
Additional Information:
Explore our SESSIONS HERE to find the perfect path for your needs.
Please visit our FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS HERE for detailed information.
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Client Reflections help others understand this work.
Client reflections are deeply meaningful to me. Because my work is personal, intentional, and built on trust, shared experiences help others understand the care, presence, and integrity that guide each session. Reviews are always welcome, never expected, and may be shared anonymously. I receive them with gratitude, as a continuation of the respect and connection we’ve shared.
If you do feel moved to leave a review, I invite you to reflect on your experience, rather than offering general compliments. Reviews are most helpful when they speak to what the session gave you.
You might consider sharing:
- Whether the session felt worth your time and investment
- What did you notice in your body, emotions, or awareness afterward
- Any changes in how you communicate, ask for what you want, or relate to others
- Whether the experience supported greater presence, clarity, or self-connection in your life
There is no right way to write a review. Honest reflections support not only my practice, but also help others seeking professional Tantra bodywork find a space that feels aligned and they help me continue to offer sessions with integrity and care.
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Location
Violet Jolie serves clients in Newport Beach and throughout Orange County, with private session availability in Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Newport Coast, Costa Mesa, Irvine, and Huntington Beach. Her studio is located in Newport Beach, moments from the coastline and minutes from John Wayne Airport (SNA), making her easily accessible to both local Orange County clients and those traveling from out of town.
All sessions are held in a discreet, privately operated space designed to support deep comfort, presence, and a refined, high quality experience. Exact location details are shared after booking confirmation. Availability is subject to scheduling.
If this work feels aligned, you are warmly welcome to reach out.
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NEW CLIENTS
We accept TEXT MESSAGES ONLY. Calls will not be answered nor returned.
If you are an established client, you may text the number for your location
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